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I want to take a break from my man. We lived together in the past. I moved out. Everytime I try to call or go over there he tells me he’s busy. I went to pick him up from work and he was talking to another girl. I’m starting to miss him. I think he moved on. What should I do?
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Hey. So I don’t know what to do about my goals anymore; because the first and most important one of those goals is to love. Not at all to say I don’t care about people, but I’m finding it hard to wrap around my head around the fact that in order to truly love people, I have to trust them and forgive them when they inevitably let me down.
The type of love I speak of isn’t limited to live towards a partner, though that’s pretty important. It’s more of a love for your fellow man, your community, and those outside of your community. People with wildly different beliefs, and opinions that some might be willing to die over. Views and actions that can ruin the image of someone you held in high regard for years.
My question is, what’s your view on the importance of love? Is it something worth living for, dedicating your time and vulnerability towards? Or, is it just something nice to have, while remembering to really love & care about yourself only?
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Hey , so here’s my question when was in high school I had a huge falling out with my best friend since elementary school we are no longer friends to this day and since then I’ve had a hard time making friends , well not really making friends because I’m a pretty cool person but it’s not as close of a bond as I once had and I miss that in no way I’m I trying to be friends with that person again just want to know how I can go about making friends and building relationships with those friends that last , I enjoy being by my lonesome but when birthdays or vacations come around I’m alone and it can get sad when you wana turn up and you can’t go out with your old ass cousins lol , what can I do? lol help !
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Are you single ?
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Okay, so I’m a celibate male. Been celibate for 5 years now. I’m 24 years old, will be 25 in March. I don’t know what to do. Every minute I’m thinking about sex and I want these desires to go away. Should I just fuck something, or what should I do to stay focused?
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