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I recently started talking to someone. I really like that she is sensitive and outgoing. I can see myself being in a relationship with her but I’m not sure about it being long term since she is away at school and we haven’t met yet.. My really good friend has told me she likes me. I used to like her before we became close and I then became content with just being friends. The situation with the friend is that she doesn’t want a relationship right now and that she wouldn’t be able to handle that I go away for school. We talked about the potential between us having a relationship in the future and I know it’s something I see myself being in for the long run. I think my problem is I don’t want to waste anyones time but the relationship with my friend wouldn’t even be a possibility right now because she doesn’t want a relationship. I’m just trying to make the “right” choice. Help me.
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Seemingly hopeless romantic.. Not really desperate for love.. More or less, eager.. Not even for love though.. Just a connection. Maybe at this point it might just be that I need to work on myself more.. But since I’ve gotten out my relationship in February or something shit been weird wit chicks. I feel like what I get out of them is a necessity to maintain what it is to “look” like you have someone, but not really want them… To be completely honest, and I’m confiding in this site and its creator solely out of trust, in them and myself, It barely gets further than fucking and nothing. Idk I hope you get me. Or am I buggin? What to do?
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Just came home from college to see my family and my girlfriend for Christmas. Everything seemed normal at first, but my girlfriend has been acting different recently. My gut tells me the worse. That she has a secret, she suddenly wants to break up because she doesn’t like the long distant relationships anymore
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So I’m 17 and in a relationship for going on two years now. He has cheated on me twice but I’m still will him and sometimes ask myself why. I’ve realized that I love him a lot and don’t want to lose him, and also that were both still young with a lot of growing to do left on our plate. We went on a break but got back together, but every five minutes I’m worried about what he’s doing and want to check his phone etc. he used to let me, but not anymore now because he feels as if since I’ve taken him back I should be able to build a sense of trust and he should have back his privacy, which is true. But if he’s going to be sus with his actions that would only make me skeptical and leave me to assume. I don’t want to have our relationship go down the drain, and I want to get past the past but I don’t know how. Can you help?
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We used to be very good friends. But now you hate me . But I still love you. Anyway. My girlfriends friends are hoes. Which makes me think my girl may very well could be a hoe or a past hoe. But I love her. And her friends be you know, encouraging her to cheat & shit, but smiling in my face. I’m the best boyfriend her to her too btw. But that’s not the point. Do you think her friends are jealous and want to ruin it ? I look good. I treat her good. Fly dat lil bihh out and make them pieces hit .. All her friends just hit 😞. Help me.
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