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I am 16 and just broke up with a guy who is 20. We dated for 3 months. I was his first girlfriend. He became very attached and wanted to settle down and have kids. He was trying to get a place fixed up to live in on his own. He wanted me to come live with him. My parents would not have liked that and I don’t want to settle down yet.
He does not understand why we broke up and thinks there is another guy or that I am not interested in guys. I saw him at the store the other day when I was with friends and he just turned and left. I just want to be his friend.
What if he messes his life up or does something stupid because of me? I asked him one day if he would ever hurt himself after we broke up and he said probably if nothing was going right in his life. Sometimes I wish that I had never gone out with him. But this is just another thing in life to learn from, right?
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Lmaoooo WTF one that nigga a BOZO for dating your little ass .. 2 that nigga a BOZO .. 3 THAT NIGGA A BOZO 😂
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Hey I’m in desperate need of help. Me and my boyfriend of 2 years have been arguing so much lately over the most stupid shit and it’s literally exhausting me. I don’t wanna give up on us but I’m just so tired of always arguing all the time over nothing. What should I do?
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Hey Ajeé,
All my life I wanted a very traditional lifestyle, to marry a man that I loved and have children with him. My problem is that I can’t find many guys that I am attracted to .. I find myself more attracted to women, but that’s not what I want. I know I’m not a lesbian because when I go to the south there are plenty of men that I’m attracted to. Do you think it could just be the guys up North that are not “floating my boat” so to speak?
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Im 20 years old and I’m still single. Everyone around me seems to have a relationship but me and it seems I’m going to be alone for the rest of my life. My friends tell me its because i don’t get out enough but I think its because I’m busy and the right one will come at the right time. There are also times where I feel like they may be right. What do you think?
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There is a female I genuinely enjoy but her box is trash. How do I break the news? Am I doing her a favor by giving her work without expecting it in return or am I being foolish?
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I’m 17 turning 18 in June. I have a job, in school, have a great family and friends but I’m lonely. I can sit in my room and feel nothing. I have tried filling this loneliness with fun with my friends or work but it doesn’t help. I haven’t spoke to any guys since the last guy I messed around with because I’m scared of getting hurt again. My friends think I should give guys a chance but I feel like not everyone deserve to get to know me. I just don’t wanna be 18 and alone. But I don’t want to open to anybody..
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So what do you enjoy about her .. And what makes her box trash .. If it’s he fact you can’t hit her walls, THEN CLEARLY you’re not the man for the job ..
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