“Hey So since last summer my best friend stopped talking to me and the thing is that she’s The daughter of my moms friend and I only see her when her mom comes over they use to come to over every week but stopped now Im messaging her and she’s not replying although i know she reads it she also didn’t attend my sisters wedding even thought her mom did and I’m kind of angry about that but I really don’t know why she’s doing this I didn’t do anything wrong to her so what should I do ?”
friendORfoe,
Hey. I think this question is actually pretty easy to answer. And I’d been in a similar situation when I was younger, where I thought a friend of mine was acting funny for no obvious reason. We stopped talking for like a year and I later found out that she’d thought the same thing about me and was just as confused as I was. Strange. Silly. It all could’ve been avoided by a simple conversation… not one of my proudest moments.
Now. You say this is your “best friend” but she doesn’t sound like one. If you only really see her when her mom comes around and you two don’t even speak, if you’re messaging her and she refuses to reply, if she didn’t bother to come to your sister’s wedding and didn’t care to even say why, she’s NOT your friend. You’ve outgrown her, or maybe you’ve outgrown each other. She obviously doesn’t respect you or your feelings.
So, what do you do? If it’s weighing soooo heavy on your heart, the next time you do see her, ask her about it. If you feel like you’ll never see her, call her phone. Tell her how you feel. See how she responds, if she responds, but be prepared to walk away from that conversation as two strangers. If she continues to show disrespect OR disregard for you? That’s it. “Friends” no more. Sorry, but I’m sure she’ll be easy to replace. Doesn’t sound like big shoes to fill. But don’t chase after anyone, if you genuinely feel like you’ve done nothing wrong – this is beneath you and you’ll honestly be just fine. If it were me? I’d never speak to her again at this point, but I understand that not everyone is like that!
I hope I helped you! But please, don’t be a push-over, girl! ❤
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